Monday, March 07, 2011

a weekend getaway always feels great, no matter how near the country is.. what it matters, is the loved ones that you're going with (:

and this time its daddy's retreat to malacca - 3 hour plus coach journey. i merely tag along and hang out with daddy's buddy and his family. so glad to know that auntie and i can really be shopping mates HAHA. i like the way how close i can choose to be with someone much older than me..

in the past, i simply respected auntie for who she is in the past, someone whom i wont take the initiative to gossip and talk to, but just exchanging few sentences here and there. [despite the fact that both my parents are very close to them with the common interests - karaoke]

guess a trip can really bring two families much closer together? now, auntie and i will hook hands and go shopping spree together hahaha. [she even ask my dad can take me in as her god-daughter not, joke]

its uber cute when you see how uncle stop my dad from eating ice cream. thats what close buddies will do isn't it, taking care of one another sharing your joy and sorrows.

sometimes, its really heartwarming to know that you got true friends around you. ^^

thank you daddy for bringing me along :)
i didnt made it to the top, but at least i tried!

i really love this photo. its like a tumblr-piece of work. HAHA.

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many of you might not know, but my dad's family is rather complicated. all the brothers couldn't get along with one another because of one thing - ah gong's favouritism. because of that, all these years, we been only close and communicating with second uncle's family. as for fourth and youngest uncle family, we merely enter their house just to visit ah gong. other than that, we didnt even talk. of course, leading to that, i barely even know their children (aka my cousins) names. so why do i even bring this up?

cause as heard from my sis (second uncle's daughter) she told me fourth uncle's daughter got married yesterday. yepp that's it, they didnt even invite my family despite us being carrying the same blood. second uncle and his wife went, they left immediately after that cause they couldnt tolerate their behaviour. they didnt even address them being their elder brother and stuff and even throw a black face as if they owe them $$ :/ yeah all along, they been behaving like this. the two uncles has never shown any respect to second uncle and my dad as elder brothers. they came into our house as if its THEIR house, and sat down lie down on sofa, etc. all these lies down to the fact that my ah gong show favouritism to two of them. he love them alot, and guess what they do to him now?

fourth uncle didnt even bring ah gong to the wedding to give him a chance to witness his own grand-daughter's wedding (given that ah gong dote on both their daughters the most). besides that, the daughter didnt even serve tea to ah gong during the tea ceremony! only serve to the parents and other uncles aunties. look how 'filial' they are. can you imagine how hurt ah gong must have felt given that he always dote on them the most. that's it, the ending result of you showing favouritism in this family. not that i blame ah gong for such things, but seriously, haven't you got the eyes to see who really cares for you and stuff. why is your heart forever with them. why hadn't you love me once like how you love them.

all in all, i just hated the fact that they nvr even respect ah gong in the first place and ah gong still continues to do so much for them... why? i can never really understand this.

anyway, exam's are OVER. and i'm unofficially a graduate of ngee ann (:

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